About choices

Do you have a close friend? A friend to be with every time. To share your life with. A friend that you can plan he/ she can be your life partner. Haha It seems scary and too much serious, isn't it? *** Do you know in Catholic we just can marry one person in a life time. Sometimes i agreed with that. It's better to cancel the marriage than to marry someone we don't really sure, maybe you really love that one but sometimes your brain just doesn't confident to make it. Do you ever feel that kind of feeling? Then go read if you do.. Don't ignore those signs, baby. Don't sacrifice the two of you. Again, and again in Catholic there's session called "prewedding concealing" to discuss about your relationship, make sure about it, or the consultant gives us some level of problems and look if we can handle that or not and somehow, the result is extremely far that we ever planned :: break ups, and cancel the marriage. How do you think? Ok, me, as a Muslim, don't have that process. But, i think God does not sleep. He'll gives the signs, starting from the hunch, feeling, surroundings, proof, witness or even a recognition from our partner itself. Don't be sad. If you belong together, you'll be together what ever the situation and condition is. But, if you are not, do not push something you can't change, it just like to set fire in to the rain. And one most important thing, "don't do something against your parents". Finally.. I got these words from someone, "soulmate comes from heart, and brain" if you just love him/ her but didn't match in your logical thinking, then think twice. And likewise. :) Goodluck, mate.